A personal column about adjusting to life in a dorm
A college dorm is a melting pot, filled to the brim with different people, styles, and cultures, all coexisting and influencing each other. When I chose to write a story on college dorm life I expected to hear nothing but complaints, horror stories about communal bathrooms, terrible roommates, gripes and dislikes galore. Instead, I was surprised to find that people enjoy living the dorm life.
Living on campus in college can be a crash course in self-sufficiency. Mom and dad aren't there to drag you out of bed in the morning, and no one will be doing your laundry for you anymore. Yet despite the shock of sudden independence, dorm life presents a positive side. It allows you to integrate into a community of your peers. It presents the opportunity to make lifelong friends. Living in the dorms can help you learn social skills and ease the adjustment period to life at a new school.
Chethan Sarabu, a freshman at Cornell University, said that dorm life is an amazing experience.
"It really opens up your eyes to the enormous size of the world, she said. You realize there are so many different people out there yet there are also so many common interests. Living in the same dorm provides people with a common experience. There are so many opportunities to meet new people whether it be in the laundry room, bathroom or TV lounge, and it's guaranteed that many of these people will be unlike anyone you've ever met before. Dorm life opens up your eyes to new quirks and different cultures.
I've had wonderful discussions about differences in culture with international students over laundry. I've become good friends with a girl who has lived in Sweden and India, and a guy from Saipan, a Commonwealth of the Northern Mariana Islands. I've danced with a guy from Morocco and learned the varying terminology for "soda" (or "pop", depending on what state you come from). I have been exposed to a myriad of cultures outside and within the United States, all due to the people in my dorm.
Andrea Volza, a freshman at the University of Rochester, sayid the experience is definitely different from high school.
"The dorm becomes your family, she said, "and by becoming a family you really get to know each other and learn how to understand each other.
By walking into someone's dorm room you can get a feel for who they are - via posters, pictures, books, and their CD collection. My roommate has a Harry Potter bedspread and I have my enormous collection of books. A girl next door decorated her entire wall with photos of friends and family.
The sense of both community and freedom are particularly appealing to dorm-dwellers. Stephen Blaker, a freshman at Tufts University said he likes living under his own rules.
"I feel like I'm an adult living within my own rules, he said. "[but at the same time] I think living off-campus would separate me from the community. I really like living in an all-freshman dorm too, because everybody is so ready to meet everybody and make new friends, so it is really easy to be social and loud because everybody else is.
I am a freshman living in an all-freshman dorm and the things I've learned about relationships and interactions between people have been priceless. I learned how important it is to look out for one another when, during the first week at school, I found a girl from my dorm lying on the bathroom floor. She had drank way too much and had passed out. I was glad I was there to help. You can always count on someone to be there.
Dorm life is a once-in-a-lifetime experience. The benefits of living a communal life are really beyond measure, and it is essential for a full college experience.



