World Autism Awareness Day & Impact Your World

March 29th, 2008

As a member of the Advancing Autism Treatment team I have been studying autism and brainstorming ideas for treatments for families of children with autism all year. This Wednesday is World Autism Awareness Day and I encourage you to learn more about this brain disorder, myths surrounding it, and the amazing lives of those with autism. Check out these interesting specials this week on CNN.

And while you’re on CNN’s website you might as well stop on by here, their Impact Your World site - “Take action! When disaster strikes or horrible events unfold, these are opportunities to effect change. Bad things happen in the world every day. But good can result and one person can impact the world.”

Stay positive!

Let’s get political, political

March 5th, 2008

If you are of age (18) and not registered yet - register ASAP! This election is so important! Go to http://www.rockthevote.com/ to register TODAY!

Just wanted to share a really great excerpt from Hillary’s speech last night (this part made me cry, I love her! :):

“I want to end by sharing with you a message that I got late last month from someone who didn’t have much money to spare, but sent me $10 for my campaign and sent an e-mail in which she wrote: “My two daughters are two and four, and we chant and cheer for you at every speech we see. I want them to know anything is possible.”

Tonight I say to them, keep on watching. Together, we’re going to make history. To those little girls, I say this is America, and we do believe you can be anything you want to be, and we want our sons and our daughters to dream big. I have big dreams for America’s future. The question is not whether we can fulfill those dreams, it’s whether we will.

And here’s our answer: yes, we will. We will do what it takes, and we will once again make the kind of progress that America deserves. We’re going to protect our country and preserve our constitution. We’re going to lead with our values. We will reach out to those on the margins and in the shadows because that’s what we do in America. We break barriers, we open doors, we make sure every voice is heard.

Together, we will turn promises into action, words into solutions, and hope into reality.It will take leadership and hard work, but we’ve never been short on either. So I hope all of you will join, join with the Ohioans who voices and votes have been heard today. Together, we will seize this moment, lift this nation, and heal and lead this world.”

-http://www.hillaryclinton.com/news/speech/view/?id=6353

A message for all

February 29th, 2008

Yes.

Combatting racism

February 27th, 2008

A few weeks ago I attended a Black History Month event entitled, “Black Man’s Guide to Survival at SUNY Cortland” held by the student group Men of Value and Excellence (M.O.V.E.) and it was an eye-opening presentation.

These young men made very clear the experience of being a minority on a predominantly all-white campus. One of the most important words of wisdom they offered was that culture shock goes both ways. While a group of white students may not be familiar with being around a person of color, a person of color may not feel comfortable being the only minority. Being a minority in any situation can lead to feelings of unease and the majority’s hesitancy to interact or tendency to isolate only widen unnecessary chasms between fellow human beings.

The members of M.O.V.E. noted that just as a Caucasian person is not treated as a spokesperson for their race, ethnicity or sex, neither should an African American. If one has to ask if racism still exists, it obviously does. Ignorance is one thing, blatant discrimination is another. One particularly charismatic member of M.O.V.E., known for being a socialite and all-around beloved guy, was deeply hurt and even considered leaving Cortland upon being accused of stealing a young woman’s purse at a party – especially after recognizing afterward that he was the only person of color, and the only one accused.

It was quite amusing when a middle-aged, male, Caucasian professor stood up and asked “how to attract more diverse students to his class”. A member of M.O.V.E. retorted, “You can’t just sit in your office and hope more diverse members register. You have to get out and spread the message that you welcome us into your class; attend our group meetings, and let it be known. You can’t just sit quietly and expect for things to change, you have to make them happen – like we are out here trying to change people’s minds about things, you have to do the same.” I found that to be a particularly forthright, bluntly honest response – especially coming from a student speaking to a professor. It was this candor that I so admired in the members of M.O.V.E. – they were opening up a dialogue that too often is skirted.

After the presentation I spoke with Keith Smith, Director of the Educational Opportunity Program at SUNY Cortland. Mr. Smith said something that really resonated with me – racism was never mandated by law in New York State, Jim Crow laws never applied here; racism is custom here, not law. Racism lies in the hearts and minds of many Upstate New Yorkers, making it all the more difficult to extinguish.

Perhaps this is why the Ithaca City School District is coming under such heat for having repeatedly ignored the pleas of Amelia Kearney when her child suffered severe racial harassment, including being spit on, punched and told by a fellow student that he had a “gun with her name on it” on the school bus. The consistent non-response of the district is now being investigated by the Tompkins County Human Rights Commission, who has found probable cause of discrimination by the Ithaca School District. Amelia Kearney was forced to take her case all the way to the Human Rights level because the District showed no interest in ensuring the safety and well-being of her child. The Ithaca City School District has responded in turn by hiring a lawyer to basically ensure that no student is covered under Human Rights Law. That has been their response. Why is this so?

Mr. Smith explained to me how he has lived in the South, and Upstate New York is by far the most racist place he’s even seen. Housing patterns and the racial make-up of school districts look as though we do have Jim Crow laws in place – except we don’t, we never did. What’s worse, enacting racism into law or carrying it out voluntarily? Neither is an ideal situation, but to systematically desire and ensure strict divisions between races illuminates an issue of morals, values, and core beliefs.

It’s hard to change anyone’s mind about anything, let alone to change their minds about racism. Why not speak up about social realities though, and question our actions rather than remain silent and separate? Inaction is enabling. Inaction is accepting, tolerating, and supporting. Just as the young man of M.O.V.E. said, just as Gandhi once said, “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.”

I do not want to live in a region that holds such strong personal allegiances to a school of thought that is outdated, intolerant, and bigoted. If we can open up the lines of communication and express our feelings, and share our experiences perhaps we can combat racism one misconception at a time.

Walk, Run, Relay for Life

February 22nd, 2008

With spring just around the corner there are a number of opportunities to get outside and go for a walk or run - and raise money & support for various causes while doing it!

Check these out:
Relay For Life
America’s Greatest Heart, Run and Walk

Click here to find more events sponsored by the American Cancer Society.

Please watch this incredibly touching video.

Helping Does Not a Martyr Make

February 7th, 2008

Today I was called a martyr by an older woman after sharing my career aspirations to become a high school guidance counselor, and it made me think…

Helping others is not martyrdom, it is not even self-sacrificing in my mind, it’s what makes me and many others genuinely happy.  And when helping others becomes martyrdom to me it seems far more a selfish, ego-serving endeavor than an enjoyable pursuit of what feels right.

Just my two cents :)  I’ll be updating much more often - and by the way, I chose grad school - the University of Rochester - over Teach For America, for many reasons, but mostly because I want to enter the professional field of counseling sooner rather than later and getting my Master’s will allow me to do this ASAP.

Stay strong and steady along Your Path.

Arundhati Roy

November 20th, 2007

“To love. To be loved. To never forget your own insignificance. To never get used to the unspeakable violence and the vulgar disparity of life around you. To seek joy in the saddest places. To pursue beauty to its lair. To never simplify what is complicated or complicate what is simple. To respect strength, never power. Above all, to watch. To try and understand. To never look away. And never, never, to forget.”

- Arundhati Roy

Love

November 1st, 2007

I intern at Longview, a residential senior community in Ithaca, NY.  Recently, one man’s wife of over half a century fell and broke her hip.  She is now in rehab and staying at the hospital until she recovers.  Everyday this man sits in the lobby and waits for someone to pick him up to see his wife.  It touches my heart to see him sitting there every evening.  To me his devotion is a testament of true love.  For him the act of waiting patiently to see his wife though no one has come for days on end… for him this act just comes natural.  Waiting for her is as natural as breathing.

I believe in love.  I believe love is the strongest, most vital force on the planet.  I believe that love sustains humanity.  That love can lift people to places where they forget about any of the pain they have experienced, and are embraced in such a warm, positive light that they are healed.

It is love that keeps that man sitting in the lobby every night.  And it is love that keeps people continuing on in backbreaking jobs to put food on the table for their children.  It is love that gathers family from miles away to celebrate.  It is love that offers a shoulder to cry on when a friend is down.

To extend our circle of love toward the world as a whole is to feel love in return.  What you put out comes back to you.

Who knows when he may see his wife again.  The love between them however emits beyond any physical boundaries… Love radiates, it beams light upon all who witness and experience its greatness.  Bask in the light of love.  Shine with the love you possess.

“The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.” - Moulin Rogue

VOTE for Charity

October 26th, 2007

Facebook never ceases to amaze me.  Seriously.  The power of this social networking community has spawned friendships, a couple thousand ridiculous “applications” but perhaps most importantly spread ideas and philanthropic opportunities.

Most recently I was invited to a group affiliated with GrabLife GiveLife.  What intrigued me about GrabLife GiveLife was that it is geared specifically toward college students facilitating change.

All you have to do is create an account with your college email at http://www.grablifegivelife.com/user/signin, which literally takes less than a minute, then log in and vote for the charity you want to see succeed most.  The cause that receives the most votes receives a $20,000 check from Dodge!

Some people say college students are apathetic these days, less inclined to try and stir things up.  I disagree.  Just because we aren’t out picketing doesn’t mean we don’t care about and actively pursue change.  Today’s technology and political climate lead us to find different, perhaps even more effective ways to help.  My complete absence of faith in capitalism is sometimes challenged when corporations, like Dodge or Target, take their money and put it to good use in the world.

Overall, voting, in any form, is always a good idea.  With elections coming up, be sure you’re registered.  If you haven’t already, register at http://www.rockthevote.com/.

Give credit where credit is due

October 15th, 2007

Seems like we accredit and congratulate people for the obvious - the awards they win, the grades they earn, the promotion they were granted - and these things are all wonderful accomplishments.

However, the cancer survivors, the veterans, the volunteer librarian… these are people who are too often overlooked. It’s the tasks we take for granted, the trials and tribulations more difficult to discuss that fall wayside of our recognition. And this is unfortunate.

Today verbally express your appreciation to your veteran uncle, to your cancer survivor grandmother, to your teacher or professor, or to that fireman directing traffic at the site of an accident.

Everyday we are surrounded by heroes.